Sales Training:
The Key to Charisma
By: Brian
Tracy
Does
a Sales Professional need Charisma? Well, it certainly helps doesn't?
Let motivational business speaker Brian Tracy guide you to more charisma and greater sales success.
Enjoy!
Take Action Sales Editor
There is a close
association between personal charisma and success in life. Probably 85 percent
of your success and happiness will come from your relationships and interactions
with others. The more positively others respond to you, the easier it will be
for you to get the things you want.
The Law of Attraction
In essence, when we
discuss charisma, we are talking about the law of attraction. This law has been
stated in many different ways down through the centuries, but it basically says
that you inevitably attract into your life the people and circumstances that
harmonize with your dominant thoughts.
You Are A Living
Magnet
In a sense, you are
a living magnet, and you are constantly radiating thought waves, like a radio
station radiates sound waves, that are picked up by other people. Your thoughts,
intensified by your emotions, as radio waves are intensified by electric
impulses, go out from you and are picked up by anyone who is tuned in to a
similar wavelength. You then attract into your life people, ideas,
opportunities, resources, circumstances and anything else that is consistent
with your dominant frame of mind.
The law of attraction also explains how you can build up your levels of charisma
so that you can have a greater and more positive impact on the people whose
cooperation, support and affection you desire.
Perception is Everything
The critical thing to remember about charisma is
that it is largely based on perception. It is based on what people think about
you. It is not so much reality as it is what people perceive you to be. For
example, one person can create charisma in another person by speaking in glowing
terms about that person to a third party. If you believe that you are about to
meet an outstanding and important person, that person will tend to have charisma
for you.
Mother Teresa of Calcutta
One of the most charismatic people in the world
was Mother Teresa of Calcutta.
In a physical sense, she was a quiet, elderly, frail woman in poor health, and
she wore a modest nun's habit. She might have been ignored by a person passing
her on the street, were it not for the tremendous charisma she developed and for
the fact that her appearance was so well-known to so many people as a result.
How Would You Feel?
If someone told you that he was going to
introduce you to a brilliant, self-made millionaire who was very quiet and
unassuming about his success, you would almost naturally imbue that person with
charisma, and in his presence, you would not act the same as you would if you
had been told nothing at all. Charisma begins largely in the mind of the
beholder.
Lasting charisma depends more upon the person you really are than upon just the
things you do.
Continually look for ways to improve other's perceptions of you so that you can
be more influential with them. Be a living magnet.
Action Exercises
Here are two things you can do immediately to put
these ideas into action.
First, be clear about the messages you are sending and the perceptions you are
creating in others. Are these perceptions consistent with the impressions you
want to make?
Second, see yourself and imagine yourself every day as an important powerful and
charming person. Treat others as you would if you were already strong, famous
and influential.
Fake it until you make it!
Brian Tracy is one of the top sales trainers and
experts in the world today. He can be contacted through his website at
www.BrianTracy.com.
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